Sex, Libido and You

If there is one thing that is sure part of everyones life it is sexual urge and libido. Well for those folks who would say not just save your word and thoughts because only hypocrites will say that it is not. Even prienst and nuns have to deal with this because it is part of being human. The only thing that is different though is the level of sexual urge and libido has. This level actually depends not only on your environment but also has hereditary factors. I for once is an example of having such hereditary extra energy and libido when it comes to sexual urge... luckily for me that I can control it and well use it in the right and proper time.

The level of libido we have can really affect our daily life and decision making. There are those that cannot resist it and ends up being nymphomaniac and even rapists.

What does libido mean anyway? Libido in its common usage means sexual desire; however, more technical definitions, such as those found in the work of Carl Jung, are more general, referring to libido as the free creative—or psychic—energy an individual has to put toward personal development or individuation.

Some of the factors which also tends to increase libido includes child-sexual abuse background, environment, watching pornographic films, peers and others. When libido is increased there is a tendency that it sometimes can become out of control. In my case the tendency frequently occurs when I am drunk. I usually get more sexually aroused when I am intoxicated.

Being a bisexual is more difficult specially that genetically I have a higher libido level than others. There are times when I get really aroused by the opposite sex not because of her gestures and body alone but because of her charisma and this also occurs to the same sex.

But because there are factor already that I have considered and the fact that I have underwent so many stages of discovering myself I can control it now more effectively than before. And frankly the easiest way to really release your libido to prevent it being out of hand is to masturbate and let your heat come out.

Now, you will say that this blog had become sexually oriented but the fact is this blog is meant to relate stories, experiences and tips that occurs in every day life and experienced by ordinary people... and because everyone is ordinary in its base form therefore this is a relevant issue.

Will it make me less credible to talk about things like this? Well, I don't think so. I have accepted my sexuality long ago and I am contented with who and what I am. I might be really hornier than others and has increase libido levels but surely I am in control of it.

So how to control it? Well it really takes time. You need to understand yourself and look beyond the basic precepts of relieving yourself. After all sex is not the greatest thing in this world for love is. Sex without love is just something that we should all avoided.

So am I perfect? Did I not have sex with others whom I did not love? Well things like that do occur in our life and sometimes we cannot resist it.

Was it wrong? Committing a mistake is not wrong, what is wrong is if we failed to learn from these mistakes.

So do not worry so much of your sexual urge and libido for it is part of who you are. Accept them and learn how to control and be one with yourself.



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